This is the second time I have written this blog. Earlier this year I started a blog, same title, similar description. I wrote about five or six lengthy descriptions of how my wife and I got into male chastity, though I didn’t really touch on the WHY.

The blog wasn’t really intended on a broadcast to all the world, though having attached the tags titled “sex” and “chastity” to it, I should not be surprised that it did attract a certain amount of reading.

Then on my most recent posting, a comment came back, from a reader, basically saying wow! Does this sort of thing really go on? Much to my surprise, this freaked me out a bit. Making me feel that I was exposing a kinky side of my life. My reaction was to delete the entire blog. I’ll never make an archivist, “I don’t like the picture in that book, burn down the whole library”.

I now realise that this was a bit of an over reaction, and now all my writings are gone. What I should have done was to respond to the comment, and suggest that this is perhaps more common than most people perhaps realise.

Well I am not going to re-write the entire description that I deleted, that would take far too long, but I think some form of story so far is required if anyone is going to understand what the hell I am going on about.

When one refers to a chastity belt, this would probably give a view in the mind of a device used in medieval times. Of the design of a belt round the waist and between the legs, with locks, so that a key is needed to remove it. A knight going off to the crusades would lock up his lady before he leaves and so preventing her from having a sexual relation with anyone else while he is away. Thus ensuring she remains faithful. Quite what would happen if the knight is killed while in the Holy Land is not documented as far as I know. Well there is still an industry that makes these devices, the design of which not having changed a great deal.

But this is not what this blog is about. No I am talking about male chastity. Using a device that prevents a man from having a sexual relation, and like the female version, a key is required to remove it. So why would anyone want to use such a device? Here is my story.

I enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with My Dearest wife. As time moved on I had a desire to experiment, create a bit of spice, but all in the privacy of our bedroom. I introduced this to my My Dearest by buying her some special Christmas presents, a maid’s uniform and some purple fur lined handcuffs, bought from a shop in our local high street. At the time I wasn’t sure how she was going to react, fortunately it ended up starting a new phase in our sexual relationship.

Wind on a few months and while doing some casual surfing, I find a UK based site that specialised in selling Male Chastity Devices (MCD). My interest roused, I research some more, and find there is a cottage industry making all sorts of implements to adorn my manhood as well as a Yahoo discussion forum. In fact there are probably Google links to various sites below this entry. My fascination remained with MCDs. They tended to take a very similar form, a ring that goes around the penis behind the testicles and the rest of the penis slipping into a tube or cage. The testicles hang down as normal but the cage and ring are joined together close enough to prevent them from escaping. A small padlock locks everything down, the key is the only means of release. While wearing the device, the wearer is unable to achieve a full erection and sex is impossible or at most extremely difficult. Of course who holds on to the key is all part of the fun. That person who is formally known as the “keyholder” is the one who in effect has final say when release will happen. Which could be anytime later that day, the next day, week or month. Some claim to be locked up for a year or more, though some of these claims should be taken with a little pinch of salt.

I don’t really want to go into full descriptions of what is out there, if anyone is interested, perhaps they might like read about it at www.chastity-uk.co.uk An informative web site giving some insight into what this is all about.

I decide that this might be a fun thing to do, and introduce the idea to My Dearest. She agrees to be keyholder and I order a device formally know as the CB3000. A modern low profile design made of clear plastic, I realise that part of the game is to wear the device away from the bedroom, while going about my normal daily business. So I wanted a design that would not be too revealing under my clothing.

I’m going to pause now. In my next entry I will talk about why I wanted to do this, also mention some of the trials and tribulations of wearing the CB3000.

Bye for now