Just another warning in case you missed the one above. This blog talks about adult stuff, so those of a nervous disposition, look away now!!

Our game of where My Dearest wife locks my cock in a male chastity device and keeps the key has not really been a feature of our life for the past year or so. Other things have been getting in the way of having fun in bed.

My Dearest has been enduring a considerable amount of physical pain. I'm not talking about emotional distress. This is the pain that makes you go ouch, but not only that, it hurts so much that she often has disturbed sleep at night, then during the day she has the usual toils of life to contend with. So in bed, sex and the fun and games that people enjoy have been forced out of our lives.

We don't talk about it much either, but we don't need to, we both know the reasons.

Last weekend, when we found ourselves together for a few moments with nothing else to do but chat, the subject came round to sex. My Dearest admitted that despite knowing that she shouldn't, she did feel very guilty that we didn't currently enjoy a sex life. I was wondering how to help her with these feelings of guilt. I said that I wanted to save myself for when she was ready, so I hadn't masturbated for several weeks. This in fact had the reverse effect and made her feel even more guilty. Then an idea came to me.

I suggested that I will voluntarily lock myself into my chastity cage and hand her the key. I would then be unable to enjoy any sexual gratification, even if I wanted to. I then went on to say to My Dearest that only she will decide when to unlock me. I will have no say in the matter whatsoever. The only condition being that when she did unlock me, she will loose the control over me and she will get a right good fucking. This would not be a point for discussion so she must choose with care when she unlocked me. Once we are both satisfied, assuming I perform that well, I will once again lock myself into the cage.

The main emphasis is that I am locking myself up voluntarily, that it is my decision and while locked she will be under no pressure to have sex. When I told her of this idea, her initial response was "you could be locked up for a long time". I assured her I understood this and that I realise that once the lock clicks, there is no going back. I reminded her that the pain that prevents her from having fun at night is not of her choosing, so if she has to live a life of enforced chastity, so will I.

So I am now locked up. She has since told me that she likes the idea of being in control. I don't think we will have many conversations about it during the periods of my lock up. I have decided not to raise it in conversation. The point is for My Dearest not to feel pressured into sex and frolics if she doesn't feel like it. If I keep reminding her of my predicament, it could make her feel guilty again. Which is how this all started.