Chaste for My Dearest

In response to:The same game, new rules

Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:06:12 +0200

It's great you are both enjoying your chastity journey. It is important that you BOTH get something out of this.

My Dearest is constantly troubled by other issues and so this side of our lives is not continuous. In March I was locked up for 4 weeks, but nothing since.

greengrass

In response to:The same game, new rules

Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:50:10 +0200

Hi,

My wifes biggest concerns when locking me up 24/7 was loosing out on her own pleasures. She has quickly embraced chastity in ensuring her own fun. I am now just another of her dildo's, not allowed to cum even when out.

I'm kept 24/7 ready for her fun and enjoyment, the feeling of being a dildo is fantastic.

In response to:The same game, new rules

Sun, 30 Mar 2008 14:24:43 +0200

Hi Bradders,

Don't ever complain, someone always has a worse deal than you :-)

As to your question. If you love someone "with all your heart" there is no space left to desire someone else.

In response to:The same game, new rules

Sun, 30 Mar 2008 01:31:04 +0100

I'll never complain ever again.
Is it possible to love someone with all your heart and yet desire another to the point of obsession?

In response to:I'm back

Sun, 21 May 2006 21:00:48 +0200

I am also bit woried sometime about my weight then any thing else for a moment but weight of the other worries outweigh my emotions towards self I guess. Dont know what will happen in future in this regard though.

In response to:2 weeks later

Sat, 06 May 2006 14:20:43 +0200

No we are definitly not weird...tho I must admit that sometimes I wonder why I would lock something like this on me. I do wish she would ask but right now I am happy (not sure if happy is quite correct....still don't know if I hate the friggin thing or love it!!!) that she gleefully participates...

Timelock works very well. I bought a 8 digit combination lock here at a local hardware store for about 30 AUD....if u do not commit a 8 digit number to memory it is easy to forget for me anyway....Timelock generates a random number....which is harder to remember as well...the text file it makes is therefore the file it encrypts after u have set the time...etc. Lock your padlock keys in the safe and off u go....there is no way out...and even the wife can't let me out.

Funny thing is she now holds the keys by choice...she obviously likes the control, she is getting better at saying no to me...eak..right now I am in my 7th day.....however I find that my frustratiion peaks at day 3-4....not sure why...don't get me wrong I still want to ravish...but I do not feel like a budding neutered rapist any more...

In response to:2 weeks later

Fri, 05 May 2006 16:59:08 +0200

Hi Cagman,

Thanks for the note.

By the way, I realise I haven't updated the blog recently. Other things taking taking up my time. I will hopefully be able to add another entry soon.

I showed the CB3K to my wife on the Tickleberry web site before buying it. So she knew all about it from the start, though she sort of lost intrest after it arrived.

For a long time she would often threaten to get me to put it on, but then didn't. Like you, I felt it wrong to suggest I put it on. As I kept telling her, she was in charge.

After we started linking it with the weight loss idea, she has been a lot more pro active. Aparently she was getting a bit concerned about my weight so when I suggested it she thought it was a great idea.

I don't really suffer from frustration, and feel I would probably cope with longer periods of lock up (buy don't tell My Dearest).

What do you think of the Timelock software? I have been considering using this, possibly after I have achieved my target weight.

And finally, I am perfectly normal, it is everyone else who is weird!!

greengrass

In response to:2 weeks later

Thu, 04 May 2006 05:37:47 +0200

Hi There, actually I have been following this blog since before you moved it....I lost it for a while then...but recently discovered you again.

I am actually in australia though my wife is from the UK, and I bought a CB3K just under a year ago. It took sometime to introduce it to my wife, but she has been aware of it now for probabluy 8 months. I wear it off and on. I am curious to know how long it took your wife to start asking you to put it on. My wife NEVER asks me to put it on as a consquence I always feel a bit silly volunteering...also does your wife tease you??...I wish mine did!!

Mind you she does seem to gleefully snatch the keys away from me these days when I offer.

Another question...how do u deal with the frustration?? At about 3-5 days I get to the point where I feel so full that I can't help but ask for the keys, although once I was using timelock when it overlaped into "that Time of the month" I ended up being locked for 2 straight weeks!!

It is nice to see some normal peopel playing around...and not being really HEAVY D/S.

In response to:A Long Year

Mon, 16 Jan 2006 23:07:25 +0100

Hi Fred,

The CB3000 breaking came as a bit of a surprise to me as well. Made my eyes water, I'll tell you that!

Thanks for your story. Teriffic to see the affect it has had on your relationship. I would be interested to know how you first got the idea of male chastity. Was it you, or your wife, and how did one suggest the idea to the other, and what was the reaction.

Only me being nosy.

I love the game with the die. I have heard of people doing that sort of thing, but the blindfold has added an extra twist. Often it is counted in weeks, but your've gone for months and you don't know how many, wow!

Some people choose a lottery draw, add up the numbers, and that is the number of days they will be locked up for. Add in the bonus ball for bad behavior.

Anyway, thanks for your comment, by the way, how do you define half a release?

greengrass

In response to:A Long Year

Mon, 16 Jan 2006 21:59:46 +0100

Hi smallboy.

I have so many other things on my plate, sitting down to write entries on this blog doesn't happen often. I have been known to write stuff on my PDA while on the London tube. Also My Dearest doesn't issue me with instructions that often. Not a case of when will she take it off, more like when will she put it on! So once I have covered all the history, there will not be a lot to write.

Glad to see things are working our for you, AND you're looking to go to steel. I fly a bit and often work in security areas when they have metal detectors, so I am unlikly to agree to going down that road. I have considered getting a metal MCD for a little short term lock up as a special treat for My Dearest.

All the best,

greengrass

In response to:A Long Year

Sat, 14 Jan 2006 01:07:36 +0100

Interesting story of breaking your CB3. Didn't think it was at all likely.

I've been in mine for three months. The first month was testing, adjusting and getting used to it, with a week's time out for an overseas trip. My wife was surprised by the increase in my affection toward her. I really liked the unexpected change in my attitude, too. We're both over 60, so the hormones are not flowing quite as hot as they once were, and I suggested a game. I said that after my next release, I would be blindfolded. Then I would roll a die (half a pair of dice, right?) and I would stay locked up for the number of months on the die. My wife loved the idea.

So at my next release at the end of that first month, I was told to get my black blindfold and the die, and to lock my CB3 back on. After the cage was on, she watched while I tied on the satin blindfold, and she pulled the edges down so that she was sure I could not see anything. She handed me the die. "Roll it," she said, and I did. She picked it up and told me I could take the blindfold off. I didn't know what the number was. For all I knew, it would be summer before I would be released next, and strangely I didn't care. I loved being in my cage and completely subservient to my wife's sexual (and other) instructions. Many evenings I knelt before her and used my tongue to bring her to the peak of pleasure. I've seldom been so happy. Finally, on the second monthly anniversary, she told me I would be released that night, and I enjoyed a wonderful session of fingering and tongueing and slow, delicious insertion of my penis into her wonderful warm pussy. I can't remember sex ever, ever being better. After we had lain in each others' arms and said the secret things that lovers say, she told me to clean up and put the CB3 back on. Then she said "You know what to do. Get the blindfold and the die." And I did. So I am locked again up who knows how long. At this rate, I will get out about three and a half times a year, but I really, really love it.

Fred

In response to:A Long Year

Fri, 06 Jan 2006 13:52:18 +0100

Hey Greengrass,

glad to see you are writing again! I will keep checking back to see how your experience continues. I too am currently using a cb3k but if im locked up overnight in it then i use the Aring from the cb2k as being solid, it is more comfortable - the hinge on the 3k always seems to irritate. its worrying to hear your cb3k was easily broken - i have looked at the join and thought that overtime it could break - clearly it does! longer term though, julie and i have already decided that if we both still like all of this in a few months time, we will be upgrading to a steel design! weve been looking at almost direct copies of the cb range but in metal, but the one we aill probably settle on is something from the range Neosteel have to offer - they look frighteningly secure!!

take care

smallboy

In response to:A new start

Fri, 23 Dec 2005 17:52:47 +0100

i, like yourself, have been exploring this as an added spice to our sexlife and again like yourself am pleased to find others making me feel a lot less alone and kinky?

please keep writing as it would be useful to compare notes over time

smallboy

In response to:A new start

Fri, 23 Dec 2005 17:16:38 +0100

Nice beginning. I've also started wearing the CB3000. Now two months without release. It's made me into a more romantic, open, affectionate husband -- a pleasant surprise to us both. I'll be interested in reading your own experiences.